It can feel like everyone else has it all figured out, while you’re just trying to get by.

It can feel like everyone else has it all figured out, while you’re just trying to get by.

Life is constantly wearing us down

Regardless of what it looks like on social media, the realities of our lives are much different. We’re all so connected, but also completely isolated. We try to keep up with the trends and status, while buckling under the weight of financial insecurity. With a looming recession, the planet on fire, and us spending more time with our phones than people, it’s no wonder we’re more miserable than we’ve ever been.

Trying to excel in this climate can feel like a futile mission. You can do everything right and still not get the job, relationship, or dream you’re chasing.

It can feel like everyone else has it all figured out, while you’re just trying to get by.
The weight of the daily expectations chips away at our self-esteem and confidence. It feels like we’re constantly fighting the negative loop of thoughts in our heads.

It’s no wonder we all want to escape. Whether through substances, doom scrolling, or binge watching “Friends”, we all pick our poison hoping to gain just a little relief.

It doesn’t have to be that way.

  • What if you could wake up everyday and be proud of who you saw in the mirror?
  • What if you could cultivate joy and fulfillment everyday, regardless of your circumstances?
  • What if you could feel like you have full agency and power over your life?
  • What if you felt so much passion and clarity in the direction of your life, you couldn’t contain your excitement?

Living the life of your dreams

Living the life of your dreams, cultivating  joy, and liking yourself in the process, is not only possible- it’s probable.

Randy Haveson
Randy Haveson
Randy Haveson

Author, Speaker, Life Coach

Hi, I’m Randy Haveson

Before becoming an award-winning speaker, best-selling author, university administrator, TEDx speaker, therapist, life coach, and founder of the Club 528 community, I too struggled with feeling like I couldn’t win. I felt like I had no direction, no hope and no way out. I used drugs and alcohol to escape my self-loathing, and almost ended my life because the pain of my existence felt so unbearable.

I knew there had to be another way. And I went on a mission to find it.

I spent decades focused not only on sobriety, but my recovery. I experimented and studied everything I could find to help me rebuild my self-esteem and identity. I unlocked a formula for how to cultivate confidence, and access self-esteem. Then I made a career out of helping thousands overcome addiction, disempowerment, and their attachment to unhealthy behaviors.

Now I want to help you too.

Feeling good about yourself, your life, and what you’re capable of is not only achievable- it’s methodical. And once you learn how to implement the right system, you not only feel the weight you’ve been carrying lighten, you see how you can cultivate confidence and joy daily.


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Becoming Your Own BFF: Building Self-Esteem for a Life of Joy

There’s a huge difference between ego and self-esteem. This book gives the reader tools to build self-esteem while letting go of the destructive nature of ego. By treating yourself like your own BFF rather than your worst bully, you can gain more confidence and find more joy. You will also learn how to overcome obstacles in your life easier and stop putting so much effort into what other people think of you.

“Written simplistically for all to comprehend and enjoy. If we all read and practiced Randy’s words..there’d be waaayy more love and positive energy in our world.“

Amy E.

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Love Yourself

Ready for a Life Coach?

  • If you are feeling stuck or lacking confidence
  • If you are craving more joy and a new outlook on life
  • If you are successful, but not happy
  • If you are eager to look in the mirror and be happy with who looks back at you

Then you’re in the right place!

More Coaching Info

Randy has been a counselor and a coach, but definitely prefers being a coach. He will be offering group and individual coaching to those who are looking for guidance and assistance in reaching their goals and finding their joy.

What makes Randy’s process different is that he coaches people for a maximum of 10 sessions for individual coaching and 15 for group. The tools he teaches people how to use come from his book, “Becoming your own BFF”. He has a very direct, but empathetic style that gets to the root of ongoing issues and patterns. His philosophy stems from his belief that “Anything is possible if we just get out of our own way.”

Coaching with Randy has gotten me through some challenging life changes and challenges.  Wow!…  Looking back, what a difference coaching with Randy has made in my life!

Tracey F.

Hire me to speak

Randy is a speaker who helps audience members find their paths in life and learn the self-esteem building skills necessary to be positive, productive, and fulfilled members of society. He has provided memorable keynotes and paradigm-shifting presentations at colleges and businesses including Notre Dame, Brown, Johns Hopkins, Philips Arena and a well-known insurance company in Atlanta, among many others.

“I wanted to thank you for speaking to my staff. I can honestly say that everyone there enjoyed listening to you. In fact, they all felt that it was the best meeting we’ve had all year!”

Kathy Wente
Retail Manager, Philips Arena

Randy’s Programs

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